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Well duh! He lives in India and I live in New York, of course I met him online! How many of us, of varying age groups, chat online or use social networks everyday? I would guess it is a phenomenal number. As technology grows so does the ability for us to go places we never thought possible from the comfort of our own homes.
As I am typing this I have up Facebook, AIM and MSN live email which can all connect simultaneously if I so desired. I can be fully connected to my everything online from the use of a single application. What brilliance! What do I need all of this for some may wonder? Well I connect to family and friends back home, I connect with my university and classmates and I spend countless hours communicating with the guy I met online almost a year ago. Whoa, isn't that dangerous? Isn't that weird? Um' hello its the age of technology, wake up and get on the bandwagon.
If your not socially networking now or are a total noob at it, I suggest you invest a small amount of time checking it out. How else are you going to be able to watch cooking shows in Thailand, live news feeds from Tasmania, or meet fabulous people and fascinating cultures from far off places, like India.
It is no longer taboo to have an online social and even romantic life. The ability to fall in love with someone through a computer isn't crazy or absurd, it is very real. For me, it was unexpected and with whom I fell in love with was even more unexpected. When I say that the instant I saw him (his user handle) I was immediately drawn to him and had to say hello. He didn't have some catchy screen name or a profile full of garbage talk that makes girls melt. He was just a guy...from India who was browsing the same chat room I was.
Here I am, its been months of this long distance romance, I'm still very much in love, and that grows every day. The communication is very strong and I believe this allows us to talk very openly to each other. There is no room for anything but adoration between him and I and yes for now it is done all online!
Cool, a love story, I like that, very nice begining, I think this will be fun to check mate now and again. Keep up the love there, muffin. Some of us have none, so we can amuse your romance and wish, wish oh wish. Smiles from me.kim
ReplyDeleteA song of a wish.
ReplyDeleteA love story, a love story, oh I wish I was in looove, oooh I wishh, someone loved me. To fall in love , to make some love, I wish to fall in love, maybe today , maybe tomorrow, I just waant to faall in love, in love. I wish to fall in looove.
Looking for a love update, I think the online love connection is mysteriously bodied by the true expression of ones spirit through the eyes of the flesh, giving to eachother a "common" understanding by life as we know in the flesh, but that sense of connecting "outside" of the body, by distance. That is as close as it comes to experiencing eachother outside of flesh, but there is that spiritual connection that we have more interms of body, mind and soul when we join is sexual pleasures, as our bodies relate and our minds press into the otherpersons pleasure, there is a natural rhythm that when all in combination sync, we experience the two as one. In that, I can not deney the spirit.
ReplyDeleteOnline Love,
ReplyDeleteI read the stories of how two people connected and grew together and fell in love and then comes the "happily ever after". I so wish I could have that kind of luck. I'm currently taking a break from the dating and the romance due to a very painful separation now pending divorce from the man I just knew was "the one". Now I'm to walk that shameful walk of shame for another failed marriage. I am so happy for you and please don't think I'm looking for sympathy, I'm going through the healing process and I am currently at the "Militant Man-Hating Feminist? stage, LOL. but I know I'll come out of it and move on. I have vowed at this point though, that I WILL NOT get romantically involved or date until I have finish college. It seems that men are intimidated by the fact that I'm just attending college and I have put my educational goals on hold for the last time. Just like the theme song of the battered w omen's shelter I stayed in about ten years ago states, "I Will Survive" and I will walk that stage.
@gamma,
ReplyDeleteYou are not alone in your fight and the goal you have set for yourself to finish school before worrying about another relationship is highly commendable. I hope that school, and a new life for you brings you the healing and closure that you need. I come from a very similar background and just know that things will and can change and the difference now is, you're smarter, quicker, and more demanding of yourself and a potential partner. Remember you are theses things because they will help you find someone that IS Mr. Right. Who knows, he may hit you like a ton of bricks one day when your least expecting =).